About References and Screening
How much screening I require is subjective, depending on the kind of session you are looking for and how comfortable I feel about you. If you have a reference from another legitimate domme that is a gold standard. References from escorts are also helpful, as is membership at Preferred411. If you have a profile at fetlife, collarspace or a swingers' site, give me the link. A profile on one of these sites that is seasoned (not new) helps a lot. If you have reviews on TER, give me that link also. I will require a REAL cell phone number at the very least and if I don't have enough information to feel comfortable I will have to ask for personal data, like Facebook profiles or work contact info.
Are you concerned about providing your information? Read this for some logic regarding personal and legal safety and a well reasoned explanation of why competent screening processes are essential.
Here is the information I request from you.
Name
Age
Height and weight
Phone(s) I will never call unexpectedly but a real cell number billed to you, NOT something like Burner or Google Voice, is required for screening, and a functional number I can use is required for logistics. If those are different numbers, tell me so.
Online profile name (fetlife, collarspace, perhaps a swingers' site?)
Have you played before? What mistresses have you seen?
References from other dommes or escorts are the gold standard. Please give contact info (website/email/phone). A Preferred411 account (which means THEY have screened you) is also very good. If you have a P411 ID include that.
What have you actually experienced? What activities interest you? Some possibilities: bondage, cock torture, spanking, flogging, golden showers, wax, pegging, anal training, foot worship, nipple torture, tease and denial.
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What toys excite you? Some options: floggers, straps, crops, clamps, clothespins, wax, dildoes, humbler, restraints, violet wand, TENS unit
Are you interested in a roleplay scenario?
Date and time. (Be specific if you have something in mind, or give a general idea of your availability.)